Julia Phoenix is a speaker, relationship coach and transformational healer who helps women to create, build and maintain beautiful, loving, supportive relationships in their lives.
Since 2015, Julia has been helping women and couples resolve their past traumas and relationship challenges, break through their barriers to love and achieve lasting success in their partnerships.
Julia holds a Masters Degree in Human Development and has a long history of working in early childhood education. She applies her knowledge of child development in her work with adults in the form of inner child work and specializes in helping adults heal attachment wounding and developmental trauma, so that they may enjoy happier healthier relationships.
Julia also teaches effective communication skills to resolve conflict, and how to show up in vulnerability to create deep intimacy and trust in relationships of all kinds. This includes professional relationships, and Julia helps her clients to succeed in business by overcoming their fears of intimacy, and learning how to be epic communicators.
Julia is on a mission to champion relational healing and conflict resolution, rather than perpetuating the status quo in the self-help industry, which seems to give people the mistaken impression that relationships are tertiary and unimportant aspects to people’s lives.
Relationships are the fabric of everything about our internal and external worlds, and deeply affect every aspect of our lives, including our finances, health, and career!
If you’re ready to move relationships to the center of your spiritual growth path and of your life, welcome! You’re in the right place.
This is where I often hear crickets...
And I get it...maybe you know you’re not “supposed” to need anyone.
You’ve invested hundreds or even thousands of dollars in personal development seminars, workshops, books, and maybe even other relationship coaches...only to be told that “all the answers are inside you” and “nobody will love you until you learn to love yourself.”
Maybe you still feel alone.
And it isn’t because something is wrong with you.
It’s because THEY are wrong. Just plain wrong.
No amount of meditation, self-love practices, affirmations or yoga retreats is going to make you any less lonely if you don’t honor and prioritize your need for closeness and intimacy in relationships.
Maybe you’ve given up and don’t believe great relationships are possible…
At least not for you.
Maybe you have crappy relationships currently.
Maybe you have NO relationships.
Maybe you have a significant other, but no friendships or community, so you and your partner are at each other’s throats so as to hijack the other party to be used as a “need-meeting machine.”
Or maybe you have awesome friends and working relationships, but you go home feeling lonely at the end of your night, and sleeping with the cat curled up in your bed just isn’t enough for you anymore...something still feels missing without a partner.
But you keep that to yourself.
Because you’re not supposed to need anyone. You’ve been told it’s wrong to feel the way you feel about wanting special people in your life to connect with. (It’s not.)
Here’s the truth:
Human beings are biologically wired for connection! We need each other, and no one is meant to walk through this world alone.
That includes you.
I know what it is like to be in painful relationships, and I know what it’s like to feel unsupported and alone.
I had a rather traumatic childhood, and I’ve had so many troubled, failed, or abusive relationships in my past, it isn’t even funny.
I often felt lonely and broken, even when I did have a partner in my life. I often cried myself to sleep at night, wondering what was so wrong with me that no one could love me.
Counselors, sponsors, and friends chanted “self-love! Self-care!” from the sidelines, not knowing that in order for me to heal…
...I had to be cared for by another. I had to learn that it was ok to want and need that. I had to learn that even if I NEVER learned to fully love myself, I was worthy of--and could HAVE--a partner and friends who loved me exactly as I was, no matter what.
Now, I am in a deeply loving, monogamous partnership. I also live in an intentional community with friends with whom I share emotional closeness on a daily basis.
I feel loved, supported, and fulfilled, and I know I can get through anything in my life because I have these supportive people there.
I’ve been helping women and couples find and grow lasting, supportive, nourishing and satisfying relationships since 2015, and I can help you too!
So if you want to create, build or maintain supportive, fulfilling relationships in your life…
Click the link to fill out the questionnaire provided.
Book a consultation call with me and we’ll chat to see if it’s a good fit.
If so, we’ll get you enrolled in one of my Relationship Mastery Coaching Programs!
If we work together at any capacity, you will:
Resolve past traumas
Imprint new beliefs
Learn how to attract your ideal partner or friends
Once in a relationship, you’ll know how to deepen and sustain it through any conflict
Feel safe and secure in all of your relationships
If you don’t take action now,
Just know that I don’t like
the idea of one more person…
Going on countless more bad dates
Never finding the relationship they want
Ending up in bad relationships or staying with the wrong person.
When we know how to be deeply supported in our relationships, we can grow exponentially in ALL areas of life, including:
I want to see you go from
a state of loneliness and perpetual emptiness inside…
...to being HELD, cradled and loved
inside of powerful relationships with people who
can genuinely see you and meet you with love,
EXACTLY where you are RIGHT NOW, exactly as you are.
If you want that too, click the link!
How to parent your Inner Child
for better relationships
Here is a video below of Julia Phoenix speaking at an event in portland , OR to a group of women about how important it is to include your Inner Child when talking about Relationships.
THE PHOENIX COURSES
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The Conflict resolution Couse
The Phoenix Reborn Course
Magnetize your Match Course
The Inner Child Breakthrough Course
LOVE & LEADERSHIP
SPEAKER, RELATIONSHIP SPECIALIST, COACH
“Working with Julia has been one of the single most life-changing experiences of my life. It has far exceeded my expectations. What I thought would take months to resolve, Julia would get to the root of the issue in one session. She is one of the most intuitive and compassionate people I've known. Her strong intuitive awareness coupled with her expertise in childhood trauma provided the perfect container for my healing.”
-Kristin Vergara, Spiritual Mentor and Coach (happily coupled.)
“She taught me how to attract love into my life, and gave me hope that I deserve it.”
-Kandle, Real estate agent (and happy girlfriend!)
“Thank you so much, Julia, for introducing me to such a wise, inspiring and healing program! I am truly blessed, and everyone I’ve talked to [in the Relationship Mastery Program] has been a perfect match (so much of a mirror/reflection!) We are all in this healing journey together, unconditionally and lovingly.”
-Relationship Mastery Program Client (and member of a new soul tribe.)
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